Life Lessons with Dr. Steve Schell

99 - The Right Question

People ask questions for different reasons. One person might ask a question as a way of attacking an opponent in a debate. That question is meant to confuse their opponent or expose their lack of understanding. Another person might ask a question because they genuinely want to know the answer. But there is also a third reason people ask questions. Someone might ask a question in order to help someone else discover the answer for themselves. At the right time the right question can lead someone in the right direction.

The passage we’re reading today is full of questions. Pilate asks most of them, and some aren’t sincere. But what is of real interest to us is the question Jesus asked Pilate. He used a question to expose Pilate’s heart. He actually reached out to His captor and gave him the opportunity to discover the truth that would bring him eternal life. In doing that Jesus was modeling something important. He was showing us how to lead someone toward God by asking the right question.

98 - Escaping the Trap

When we read the account of what happened to Jesus after He was arrested, we encounter an element that is very hard to explain. It’s the furious hatred some people felt toward Jesus. They hated Him with a ferocity that is just not reasonable. After all, He was a good man, the kind mothers want to have bless their babies. He wasn’t a violent criminal or a thief. He was a rabbi who taught in the synagogues and courts of the temple. He didn’t do things in secret. Anyone could come and watch and listen to Him, and it was a very normal part of His ministry to heal the sick and deliver people who were tormented by demons. So how does a person become uncontrollably angry at someone like that? It doesn’t make sense, at least, not until you look at the situation from a spiritual perspective. All normal people become angry at times. But what is it that causes a person’s temper to flare to the point where they become savage? What makes a person hate someone else so much that they are willing to lay aside all sense of justice, violate the very laws they swore to uphold, and arrange for someone to die as painfully as possible?

As we read the accounts of the pre-dawn trials to which Jesus was subjected, there is a horrible element of cruelty, of hatred that creeps into the picture and grows as the hours pass until we watch people spitting in His face, beating Him with their fists and slapping Him when He’s blindfolded and His hands are tied behind His back. It’s just not normal. Some force has entered in and seems to have taken control of them. And, yes, it shocks us all to read the sort of things that were done to Jesus, but if we’re honest with ourselves, that type of fury is not entirely unfamiliar to us. Human history is filled with examples of it. And if we’re really honest with ourselves, we don’t have to look back into history to find examples of that strange fury. Many of us have been the victim of it, and many of us have felt that fury come over us and propel us to do or say things we never thought we would.

Today we’ll follow Jesus through those pre-dawn trials at the high priest’s residence and watch as that strange fury enters into the situation and takes over. We’ll try to identify that force, and think of examples where we’ve seen it at work. But the main goal of our study will be to consider how that influence gains entry into our lives, and how to stop it from ever coming in again. We want to lock the door on that uninvited spirit.

97 - Failed Resolutions

There comes a time in most people’s life when they discover how weak they are. How soon that happens varies from person to person. Some learn the lesson when they are very young, others not until much later. Some discover it by a series of small events, others only after a massive failure. Some easily admit their weakness and seek help, others are deeply ashamed of their weakness and try to hide it. But the fact remains that all of us encounter temptations and situations which have the power to overwhelm us. No matter how much we desire to do the right thing, we find ourselves doing the very thing we promised ourselves we would never do.

Peter provides a great illustration of someone struggling with their weakness. Jesus had tried to warn him, but Peter refused to listen. He was so sure of his love for Jesus, and so unaware of the powerful forces which were about to attack him, that he actually defied Jesus, telling Him that His warning was unnecessary. He was absolutely confident that he would not fail, even if all the others did. And then, when those horrible events began to unfold, Peter frantically tried to keep his promise, and in doing so put the lives of all the disciples at risk. In the end he fled just as Jesus said he would, and discovered that he was as weak as Jesus said he was.

But Peter’s weakness that night did not mean he would always fail. In fact it was the discovery of his weakness that became an important step in his development as a disciple. It showed him the power of the forces arrayed against him. It showed him the difference between his flesh and his spirit. It taught him what to do in the future, so he needn’t fail again. And it certainly left him a different man: a humble man, whom Jesus could trust to strengthen others who were also weak.

Today, we’ll observe Jesus as He coaches Peter through the process. We’ll hear Him warn Peter, we’ll hear Him explain why He was so certain Peter would fail. We’ll hear Him assure Peter that he would be restored. And we’ll hear Him give a humbled Peter a new assignment.

96 - The Cup of Suffering

Unfortunately, it’s not possible to rescue people out of the darkness of this fallen world without suffering. Forces that hold people down won’t let them go without a battle, and people are wounded, and even die in battles. Which explains why suffering is necessary. But not all forms of suffering have the power to rescue people, only a certain kind. Most have no redemptive power at all, they are just the tragic fruit of our own wrong choices or of living in this sinful and broken world. Yet there are times when God specifically asks His people to suffer, because that’s the price that must be paid to bring someone out of bondage or unbelief. In those moments it is a believer’s love for God and hurting people that will constrain them to obey. God never forces a person to make that choice. He indicates His will, and then asks them to drink the “cup” He has placed in front of them. In this passage, John shows us the moment Jesus took that cup and began to drink from it.

Please notice: The suffering God asks His people to perform is not something He imposes on them against their will. It is something He invites us to choose because it is in our willing embrace of that trial that His power can be released. Suffering by itself helps no one, but suffering when it is done by faith and motivated by love, becomes a form of spiritual warfare.

We know that God can bring something positive out of any situation (Ro 8:28), including suffering. But that’s not the kind of suffering Jesus embraced that evening in Gethsemane. He was choosing to do what was necessary to save us. He put our needs ahead of His own, and as a result He provided a way of escape from eternal separation from God for every human who would believe in Him. That kind of suffering is not the misery of disease or injury; it’s not the darkness of depression, or the bruising left behind by demonic attack. Those forms of suffering are our enemies. They are, ultimately, the result of the devil’s war against the human race. They happen to both the guilty and the innocent. They come to all who live in a fallen world, and they aren’t God’s will. They are part of the miseries from which Jesus came to rescue us.

By the time John wrote this gospel, the other three gospels were already in circulation. He knew what Matthew, John Mark, and Luke had written. That’s why he didn’t repeat all the same descriptions of Jesus’ arrest and crucifixion. He didn’t need to retell what had already been told so well. But He did want us to see a very profound truth which was at work in the heart of Jesus during those events. He wanted us to understand that Jesus willingly went to the cross. Why? First of all, because it reveals His love for us. But I believe there is also another reason. I believe John wanted us to follow Jesus’ example. He was showing us that we too must choose to suffer to rescue others. Now, no one but Jesus could be the sacrifice for human sin. He performed a unique ministry on the cross that no other person, in all of history, could perform. But the fact that He willingly chose to suffer for us models an element of discipleship each of us must choose to follow. We can’t die for lost people; only He could do that. But in order for the power of His redemption to reach lost people, God’s people must be willing to suffer. And as He did with Jesus, the Father won’t force us to drink that cup. He’ll place it in front of us and wait for us to obey.

95 - Our Greatest Gift

Christmas is a time of gift-giving. I suspect the Magi, the wise men who came from the east, may be the inspiration behind it. They brought gifts to Jesus fit for a king while He was still a very small child in Bethlehem. They gave Him gold, frankincense and myrrh because they believed He was Israel’s promised Messiah who would bring God’s kingdom to earth.

On December 25th many of us will give gifts to one another as a way of celebrating Jesus’ birthday. I’m not sure how that tradition of giving gifts to ourselves was started, but I certainly have benefitted from it over the years. This year I’ve asked for some shop lights for the garage and a couple of new shirts. We’ll see what happens. But our gifts to one another are nothing compared to the gift the Father gave us on that first Christmas morning. He gave us His beloved Son. He gave us the only Person who could rescue us from our sins and make it possible for us to become His children. The story about the angels and the stable in Bethlehem and the baby in a manger is a beautiful one, and I never get tired of hearing it. But the gift of Christmas began long before that and will continue long after this world has passed away.

On that evening before the cross, Jesus was praying, and in His prayer He mentioned where He came from before He was born, and gifts the Father had given Him before the creation of the world. But then He prayed something so big, so wonderful, so eternal that it’s hard to put into words. He prayed that He could share His gifts with us. Let’s try to understand what He meant, because until we do, we don’t really understand the gift of Christmas, and we don’t really know who we are.

94 - Filled With His Joy

Possessions don’t bring joy. They break, get stolen, or we grow bored with them. Pleasure doesn’t bring joy. The more we seek it, the less we find. Entertainment doesn’t bring joy. Much of it leaves us feeling violated or sad. Trying to isolate ourselves from people or problems doesn’t bring joy. The more time we spend alone the more angry we become. We end up thinking far too much. So when Jesus prayed that we would be full of His joy, He was asking the Father to give us a source of joy that is totally different from all others. His prayer that night was that His source would become our source, and if we listen carefully to His prayer, we discover that He reveals His source. The problem is, His source is so different from all of ours, it can sound crazy until you try it. To find it we must walk in the opposite direction of where we would normally go. And isn’t that God’s way? To find life, we must die to self. To receive, we must freely give away. To be loved, we must learn to love others. And to be filled with joy, we must discover what it means to become “one” with God.

93 - Thankful For Truth

Do we realize what a treasure we hold in our hands when we open a Bible? The very words of God were written down and preserved for thousands of years so that, today, we can hear them afresh and believe. Moses wrote the first five books of the Bible during Israel’s Exodus from Egypt, probably between 1446 B.C. and 1406 B.C. His writings and then those of all the others who wrote the books that are included in the Old Testament, were written over a period of a thousand years. During all those centuries dedicated people copied the texts by hand, word by word, writing on leather or papyrus. They checked, in every way possible, to see that each word was accurate. Why? Because these were the very words of God, and they wanted to pass that treasure down to you. They saw themselves as a link in the chain of history. When invaders attacked, they grabbed their most precious possession, the Bible, and cradling it in their arms they ran into the hills and hid it away so it couldn’t be destroyed. Why? So you and I could read it.

And then Jesus came and perfectly revealed the character of God and died on the cross for the sins of the world. His disciples watched and listened, and wrote down everything they could. I think some took notes as He spoke, and all of them memorized as much as possible, which was quite a lot because their memories were highly trained. They had been memorizing the Word of God since they were tiny children. And they surely realized that what they were hearing and seeing was very special. This too was God’s Word and must be preserved. Matthew wrote what he remembered; John Mark wrote down what Peter remembered; Luke did careful research, interviewing those who were eyewitnesses, and wrote down exactly what they told him. And John, the disciple who was with the Lord from the very beginning of His ministry until He ascended into heaven, wrote down what he remembered, filling in important sections the others had missed. Why? Because that was their assignment from the Lord. They were to preserve the truth that Jesus had revealed so that people all over the world and in every generation could hear it, and believe it, and be saved.

This weekend our nation will celebrate our Thanksgiving holiday. It’s a time we have set aside for reflecting on the good things God has given us, and acknowledging Him as our Source. Many blessings will be mentioned on that day, but this year as we listen to Jesus pray for those eleven men to whom He was entrusting the gospel, we would do well to be especially grateful to them, and to all the men and women who have preserved this truth, sometimes at the cost of their lives, over the past 2,000 years. It was written down, guarded, and passed onto their children and grandchildren so that you and I can still hear it. Without them we wouldn’t know that God’s Son died for us. And without them we wouldn’t know that the Father loved us and wanted to save every one of us.

This Thanksgiving we owe a debt of gratitude to a lot of people, but none more than those who made it possible for us to hear about Jesus. As we listen to Jesus pray for those first apostles let’s stop and thank God for their faithfulness this year, and for all those who passed on to us the knowledge of the truth.

92 - His Deepest Desire

What would you pray for if you knew you were going to be executed tomorrow morning? A legion of angels? The rapture? A good lawyer? I think most of us would be fervently pleading for a miraculous change of circumstance, which is what makes Jesus’ prayer that evening so amazing. He didn’t ask to be rescued at all. He quickly acknowledged that the time had come for Him to die, but then began to pray that God would give Him the deepest desire in His heart. This is what He said, “Father, the hour has come; glorify Your Son, so that the Son may glorify You.” That’s it! That’s the first thing He asked for. He wanted to give glory to God.

To “glorify” someone, as Jesus is using that word here, means to raise that person to a higher level of esteem in the mind of others. It’s doing something to expand people’s love and admiration toward him or her. But how do you glorify someone who is already completely glorious? How do you give a meaningful gift to a God who lacks nothing? What would anyone give Him that He would desire? Thankfully, there is something, not that He lacks, but that He deeply desires. And that’s what Jesus asked for that evening rather than His own safety. He prayed for the privilege of giving His Father that gift. That was His deepest desire. What’s yours? What’s mine? The answer to that question is what we’re asking the Lord to reveal to us today through His Word.

91 - Faith Under Pressure

Jesus’ disciples keep surprising us. You would think that by the final evening prior to His arrest they would have developed a strong, unshakable faith. After all, they had been watching Him minister and listening to Him teach for the past two and a half years. What greater miracle did He need to perform, or how much clearer could He be in telling them who He was and why He’d come? They had seen things no human eye had seen in all of history. And yet, as Jesus’ ministry on earth was drawing to a close their faith was still weak. It appears to have fluctuated with the moment. After some great miracle they would cry out that He was the Son of God, but as He kept progressing toward the cross, they seemed to struggle more and more to understand what He was trying to tell them.

The passage we’re studying today is one more example of the disciples’ changing moods. They had been debating among themselves about a statement Jesus made, when He suddenly confronted them. Without overhearing their conversation He was able to tell them what they had discussed, and then, using some of their exact words, He proceeded to answer their question (Jn 14:16-19). That really impressed them. They marveled that He knew their thoughts even before they had spoken a word to Him. And that prompted them to tell Him that they were now convinced that He was God’s Son. In effect, they were announcing to Him that they finally believed in Him. They said that after examining the evidence they had concluded that He had come “from God.” They intended their words to be affirming, but their statement actually revealed a very low level of faith, the sort of faith that would collapse as soon as it was put under pressure. Jesus replied that when Judas arrived with soldiers to arrest Him they would all abandon Him and scatter like frightened sheep.

But Jesus didn’t leave them with that discouraging assessment of their faith, He quickly redirected their attention to another source of faith. He said if they would believe what He had taught them that evening they would find a source of faith that would last, one that would bring them peace, even in the midst of suffering. He said their new faith would rest on the confidence that He had “conquered the world,” and that’s still the only foundation of faith that lasts. We need to understand what He meant by those words, so we too can put our faith in the One who has “conquered the world.”

90 - The Secret of Joy

If you want to know how you’re doing spiritually, all you have to do is answer one simple question: “Do I have joy?” If I’m full of fear, there is no joy. If I harbor bitterness toward someone, there is no joy. If I grieve the Holy Spirit by saying or doing something harmful to another, there is no joy. If I allow an addiction to control me, or follow after the passions of my flesh, there is no joy. But when my faith is strong, when I’m at peace with others, when my spirit is in control of my flesh and my thoughts, the whole world looks different to me. I can laugh again. I want to be with people. I make plans for the future. I dream about great possibilities. I’m glad to be alive. So it’s not hard to understand why the Bible says, “…the joy of the Lord is your strength” (Ne 8:10), because when I’m joyful I feel energized. I want to do something, heal something, change something. But when my joy is gone, life becomes hard.

Having just warned His disciples that they were going to be severely persecuted, and within moments of telling them that they would fail miserably to stand with Him when He was arrested (vs31, 32), Jesus talked to them about joy. What a strange topic to place in the middle of all this sorrow; or is it? First, He said they would feel grief as they watched Him suffer, but that their grief wouldn’t last. They would soon feel joy. He compared what they were about to go through to the emotions a mother may experience in childbirth. She endures pain during labor, but then joy after the child is born. He said that joy can be so strong it causes her to forget the suffering. Then He told them that it would be that way with them too. Even if they did not understand what was happening as they went through the turmoil that lay ahead, they were about to witness the most remarkable event in all of human history. A brutally-executed man would come back to life in a glorious, immortal body. After that all doubts about life after death or whether or not Jesus was truly God’s Son would be gone. They would receive a gift of joy that would be with them for the rest of their life.

But Jesus didn’t stop there. He went on to tell them that they would be given another source of joy, one which would fill up whatever was lacking in their hearts. He said they would see amazing answers to prayer. Whenever they asked the Father for what He told them to ask for, the Father would gladly give it to them. And watching God miraculously answer those prayers would lift anyone’s mood.

So regardless of the difficulties they were about to face, their lives would be marked by joy. Now, that’s a promise you and I need to learn how to receive, because Jesus didn’t promise us an easy life. What He said was, we would never be alone, and He would give us such authority in prayer that we could walk through whatever lies ahead full of joy. We need that, so let’s try to understand what He was saying.